Seven year itch?

I have been reading several articles online that discuss the 7 year itch transforming to the 10+ year itch. Now the seven year itch references more than just infidelity these days. It also involves growing apart and falling out of love.

It appears that marriages start off grand with the "honeymoon" phase. There is a lot of attention, affection, quality time, and even communication. After the first 4 years or so life changes. Children come along, mortgages have been added. Less attention is spent on the marriage itself while children are nurtured and shuttled from one activity to another.

Couples need time for themselves. Every day show even the smallest of affection. Talk every day. Not just about the kids and bills but about each other. Dress up and have date nights. For no reason at all leave each other small love notes. Just a simple post it tucked in a lunch box with 3 little words "I love you" is perfect for reminding him or her of that very thing.

Keep things fresh in the bedroom. Light the occasional candle, the sensual massage, even surprising your loved one in the shower is a great way to keep that fire burning. Turn the lights down low, seat him at the dining room chair carefully placed in the middle of the room, blind fold him, turn on the music, and give him a sensual lap dance. If you have been doing the same thing for the past 5 years, try something new. This is your lover. Don't be afraid to explore. Intimacy is key to lovemaking.

A great marriage is about attention. Show each other attention and spend that quality time that is needed. Don't succumb to monotony. Not only talk to each other but listen to each other. Men fall in loves with their eyes. Women fall in love with their hearts. Men, touch a woman's heart with the little things. A card, flowers for no reason, remembering a special moment to recreate, eating at the restaurant of your first date, holding her in bed telling her of the story when you first laid eyes on her. Women, wear something sexy. If he loves your legs, show them off. If he likes lingerie wear something he would love. Does he have a favorite flannel shirt or dress shirt? Wear it unbuttoned with nothing underneath.

A little attention goes a long way. Pay a little attention to your partner and you will see how far it truly goes.

Olivia Vidal
Romance Specialist

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