Stage 5: You Did It!

You’ve enjoyed the lust, lived the love and come through the chaos of family life — without splitting up in the face of troubles. You’ve reached what DeMaria calls “completion,” a stage that retired, empty-nest couples who still enjoy being together can bask in for the rest of their lives.

Continue to show each other affection and attention. Remember, says Hyman, if you’ve remained a loving, harmonious couple, you won’t have an empty nest for long. Children and grandchildren gravitate back to the happy home they remember.

You can read the full story at

http://glo.msn.com/relationships/how-to-make-it-through-the-5-stages-of-marriage-5046.gallery

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Liberator Jaz Mini

With a more compact size, turn on to JAZ MINI and practice improvisation in perfect harmony with your soul mate. With JAZ MINI you’ll hone your technique and never play the same song twice. Remember, it’s not the instrument but how you play it. Available in 8 delicious colors yet small enough to travel in any gig bag. JAZ is built with machine washable micro suede covers (not designed to interlock with other Liberator shapes). Under the skins, a moisture proof liner protects the foam inside.



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Checklist

You've chosen your products, now what?

Make sure you have everything you need once your new best friend arrives.

Here is a checklist for all the things you may not have thought of:

• Batteries - Use new batteries with every new toy. This ensures your toy will work properly and be long lasting.
• Toy Cleaner - common soaps can harm your toy. Purchase a dedicated cleaner to keep your toy in tip top shape.
• Lubricant - be sure to use the proper lubricant for the correct toy. For example silicone lubricants cannot be used with silicone toys. The friction reaction will cause the toy to "melt" and will not longer be usable. When in doubt use a water based lubricant.
• Pleasure wipes - safely cleans body fluids and lubricants
• Enhancement creams - for the extra excitement in your pleasure session

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6 inch Jelly Vibe

This hot pink soft jelly vibe is a variable speed vibe. So soft yet firm, feels almost like the real thing. Fabulous for internal and external stimulation. The perfect toy for the beginner. This popular toy uses 2 AA batteries.









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Stage 4: Just You Two

Some call this stage the “empty nest,” but that implies that your home is devoid of love (i.e. empty) after your children grow up and leave. Hopefully, it’s not that way (though it can be). In the best scenario, this stage is about reunion, says DeMaria. “You are getting to know each other all over again, unpacking old baggage and having fun.”

Assuming you’ve weathered the earlier storms of marriage, this time can be exhilarating. But many couples find it a struggle to be together again with nothing else to concentrate on. Spend some time figuring out things you can do together and apart. If the issue is that you’ve ignored resentments toward your partner while you were busy with work and kids, you’ll need to be honest about these thorny problems, says Hyman.

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History of the Vibrator

For centuries, doctors had been treating women for a wide variety of illnesses by performing what we would now recognize as masturbation. The "pelvic massage" was especially common in the treatment of female hysteria during the Victorian Era, as the point of such manipulation was to cause "hysterical paroxysm" (orgasm) in the patient. However, not only did they regard the "vulvular stimulation" required as having nothing to do with sex, but reportedly found it time-consuming and hard work.

One of the first vibrators was a steam-powered device called the "Manipulator", which was created by American physician George Taylor, M.D. This machine was a rather awkward device, but was still heralded as some relief for the doctors who found themselves suffering from fatigued wrists and hands. Circa 1880, Dr. Joseph Mortimer Granville patented the first electromechanical vibrator, then, in 1902, the American company Hamilton Beach patented the first electric vibrator available for retail sale, making the vibrator the fifth domestic appliance to be electrified, after the sewing machine, fan, tea kettle, and toaster, and about a decade before the vacuum cleaner and electric iron.

Learn more about the history the vibrator here

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Immortal Beloved - The Third Letter

This is the final letter from Beethoven to Antonie before they departed never to meet again.
 

 Good morning, on July 7
Though still in bed, my thoughts go out to you, my Immortal Beloved, now and then joyfully, then sadly, waiting to learn whether or not fate will hear us - I can live only wholly with you or not at all - Yes, I am resolved to wander so long away from you until I can fly to your arms and say that I am really at home with you, and can send my soul enwrapped in you into the land of spirits - Yes, unhappily it must be so - You will be the more contained since you know my fidelity to you. No one else can ever possess my heart - never - never - Oh God, why must one be parted from one whom one so loves. And yet my life in V is now a wretched life - Your love makes me at once the happiest and the unhappiest of men - At my age I need a steady, quiet life - can that be so in our connection? My angel, I have just been told that the mailcoach goes every day - therefore I must close at once so that you may receive the letter at once - Be calm, only by a calm consideration of our existence can we achieve our purpose to live together - Be calm - love me - today - yesterday - what tearful longings for you - you - you - my life - my all - farewell. Oh continue to love me - never misjudge the most faithful heart of your beloved.
ever thine
ever mine
ever ours



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